My boyfriend and I of 6 years have just broken up.
how do I move on? it hurts so bad..
i have fears no other guy will love me like he did, and will care for me the same. I also have fears no other guy will find me as attractive as he did.
this is killing me.
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I'm so sorry that you're in so much pain right now. It is so awful to feel the way you do. In answer to your question/s, I can ASSURE you that you are going to have a plethora of men at your feet, all of them waiting for you to give them the time of day! It seems outlandish now, but it's the truth! You were 13 when you started dating your ex, right (you said six years and you're 19 now so...)? You were just children then. Now you're going to enter new, exciting, adult relationships. They will be different and quite exciting. One day, I promise you, you will think of your ex and smile without feeling that awful pain in your gut. He will remind you of your teenage years and all the love you shared. Maybe you'll even get back with him in 10 years. You never know! For now, however, you need to heal that broken heart of yours. I really would recommend you NOT seeing him for a while. That will only make things worse. Cut off communication with him. You have to (haveee to) do that in order to heal. Get rid of his stuff (if you can't throw it out, just hide it). Be with your friends, be with yourself, do things that are just for you. You're going to be so fine. It sucks a lot, but you need to trust this stranger that you will be fine!3