My boyfriend, recently told me that he loves me, but doesn't find me attractive so he talks to other women.
Will our relationship work out if this is the case?
And things do guys find attractive & unattractive?
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It sounds as if this guy thinks of you more as a friend than a girlfriend. There are people in this kind of relationship, so I guess it can work. But whether it would work for you, I don't know. When it does work--in the situations I have heard of--usually BOTH people feel the same way as your boyfriend. If you are attracted to your boyfriend and you would have a problem with him seeing other women, then you should end the relationship.
For me, this kind of relationship would not work. I think it would be unhealthy to be with someone who didn't find me attractive because I would feel inferior and lose my confidence. I would always be worrying that he would be cheating on me.
My feeling is that you are too young to be trapped in this kind of relationship. It can't be fun for you thinking that you are not attractive. You asked what things guys find attractive and in my experience, there isn't a single answer. Different guys find different things attractive. I suggest you find a guy who is attracted to you and won't make you feel like other girls are better!0