Why girls don't give another chance to guys who cheat?

I cheated just once and she left me. She didn't care how much I was sorry she even didn't care how much I loved her and ready to fix things again. Why girls can't give another chance to guys who love them but had a mistake?

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  • You also didn't care about her when you cheated on her, how much she loved you, and most guys probably dont know this but girls who are in relationships also get hit on and a lot, you dont think she had the same opportunity to do the same thing? But she didn't cause she thought of you. she cared for you.
    But its true people can really be sorry and regret what they did.
    But its not just telling her how sorry you are but showing her and also give her some time , if its recent then she is still getting over the shock and fact what someone she loved did to her. If time has passed by she might be over it.

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  • Once you cheat, you destroy the entire relationship, her trust, and all credibility of yourself. It doesn't matter how much you "love" her or want to fix things, how can she trust you to so that? You've already stabbed her in the back once, there's no evidence to show that you won't do it again. Cheating is no "small" mistake that usually gets a second chance.

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  • I cannot belive the "only once" business. Every second you we're thinking of that other girl, you were cheating. If you really loved your girlfriend and felt sorry, you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place.

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  • Because if my boyfriend were to cheat on me, I don't give two shits why he did it or how 'sorry' he is. Giving reasond as to why you cheated on someone is nothing more than an attempt to justify doing something you knew from the start was terrible.
    Of course you're sorry... 99% of humans would be sorry they got caught.

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  • I'd say you not accepting responsibility would be a good reason why she won't give you a chance. You have blamed the other girl, she isn't in charge of your fuck... you are. It's your fault you did It and I don't blame her for walking away. It's clearly obvious you aren't very emotionally mature.

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  • because it will never b the same... no matter what you do.. if she had cheated then i think you could not forgive her either... i dont want to sound rude.. but a mistake? your pants got off by theirself? and your thing went into a women without telling you?

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    • I could not forgive because of another reason. It was all mistake the other girl fooled me she told me no one would find but she told my girlfriend.

    • lol... he cheats, gets to sleep around and expects women to be all forgiving, pure and loyal.

    • ok.. soo in your opinion it was ok to cheat if she would never find out? like it is ok to have sex with a hooker if girlfriend or wife doesn't find out? would you b ok if she hires a male escort? you cheated.. you hurt her.. accept it.. and move on.. and dont do it with another girl.. it would b different if you were raped by that girl.. but that is not the case here...
      @Vesuvius87 lol indeed...

  • So because one girl did it, we all do? Grants most of us do, but there are some who forgive.

    You destroyed her trust in you. I mean, it's not like you slipped and fell into another woman... then in and out, in and out. You made a choice, and the choice was to be with someone else. If you were even having any thoughts cross your mind along those lines, there was something wrong with the relationship or something wrong with you.
    From her point of view, if you had stayed together and you were sad, she would wonder if it was because of the other woman. If you were happy, if the other woman caused it. If you were thinking about her or the other woman. Can you see now why couples who've experienced one person cheat, they generally fail? If you had been cheated on you would now how crushing it is - someone doesn't care about you enough to talk to you, they can't even bare to look at you naked.

    That's why most girls don't give a second chance. And that's why most guys don't give a second chance either.

    Reading your comments to other people, you are making it sound like because you are a man you should be treated better. "It leaves men with broken hearts". You broke her heart when you cheated. She has every right to be treated better, and you won't treat her right. You've proved that, and proving it now in the way you speak.

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  • its because trust is gone and you left her with trust issues.. you can't get her back

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    • But I love her and would do everything to get her back just need her to gives me another chance.

    • i you really loved her you shouldn't have cheated on her...

  • You did it the first time, what's your proof that you won't do it next time? Cheating isn't something that is easy to forgive. If you really love her, you wouldn't make THAT kind of mistake. Heck, you wouldn't even think of doing it. Because you don't look at anybody else when you love somebody.

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  • 1. It will only make her feel even more stupid and foolish
    2. It's a waste of time now being aware that he simply cannot bring something to the table that many women need: LOYALTY, TRUST, DECENCY, and INTEGRITY
    3. He has shown his value system and it sucks so why waste anymore time web there are men out there who are greater than him internally?

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  • Because if you love someone you don't go fuck someone else. Leave them if you want to be with someone else that simple.

    If you can't be loyal and faithful don't be in a relationship not hard

    She would have faced temptation in every day life too except she didn't succumb to it

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  • Using your same logic, should guys also give another chance to girls who love them but made a mistake?

    I would dump you immediately too.

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    • That logic won't work when you change the positions.

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    • Wow OP. Just... Wow.

    • Oh now I get it, this is another ''I get to sleep around but my woman has to be pure'' hypocrite. A cheater isn't a husband nor father material either. Since you have that sexual double standard and have the nerve to expect a woman to remain all pure and faithful but you can't bring the same to the table... even more reason to get dumped.

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  • "She didn't care how much I was sorry she even didn't care how much I loved her and ready to fix things again."

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    • lol... good one.. thats is exactly what he is trying to do.. he should just leave the poor girl alone..

  • Lol. I have stories where a girl will cheat and pretty much start crying to be forgiven. But when a guy does it he can't be forgivn lol. I love how much of hypocrite people can be.

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  • You whine that you cheated "just once" as though that makes it any better. Trust takes a long time to build, and once broken, can often never be rebuilt.

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  • Because they have in their minds~

    https://cdn.meme.am/instances/58432579.jpg

    Once a liar always a liar.. 👊😛

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  • Dude, grab a tequila and move on. Shit happens, you messed up, take responsibility and get a new girl.

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  • A good reason why cheaters deserve another chance when it's an act that's preplanned please.

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  • 1.) Cause cheating ruins a relationship forever and changes everything...

    2.) You deserve it!

    3.) You deserve it!!

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  • Probably because cheating is not a mistake its something you wanted to do but aren't man enough to take responsibility for your own actions

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  • It's not only girls, personally, I would never give a girl who is a cheater a chance.

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  • Cuz... fuck you?

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