I was seeing this guy I met in college. For a few months things were okay then he got a girlfriend.. Because I said "I'm not looking for anything" assuming that's what wanted to hear. Our relationship continued although he had a girlfriend (I had strong feelings). I've seen him cry to me about losing me. He told me he loved me but wouldn't dumped his girlfriend. Or let me walk away until I moved home. (College ended for the year) his girlfriend was long distance while I was around. Recently he blocked me because I said I never wanted to talk to him again. Was I just being used at his convenience? Did he ever care?
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You told him you were not looking for a relationship. You told him you didn't want to talk to him again. It sounds more like you were using him than the other way around. You strung him along. He even told you he loved you. Evidently he knew deep inside not to leave his girlfriend because you were not safe to hold his emotions with love and caring. Maybe being honest and up front next time will lead to a better relationship.0