Most Helpful Girl
My ex just left me a month ago and it really bothers me too to think of him being with someone else especially in an intimate way. I think it is normal to feel that way because you still care and it was something special between you and her. Even if your not up to dating or jumping into something new it might still be nice if you got out with friends and met new people. I know it seems hard to even think about a new future with out your ex but eventually over time you will find someone better.0
Most Helpful Guy
It'd hurt me too if I found out my ex was dating or fooling around with someone new, but like you said it's none of my business.
You just need to learn to put your ex in the back of your mind and go out and have fun. Meet new women, speak to new friends and just generally make your life as good as it can.
If your ex suddenly decides to contact you, providing you still have feelings for her, just tell her "Hey, it's nice to hear from you. I'd love to meet up, when are you free?"0