Ahhhhh I don't know what to do with my ex-girlfriend?
What Girls Said 1
You did the right thing by saying all or nothing. It's not fair on you to give your all only to be with someone who has no idea what they want. It sounds like your ex is conflicted and has a lot to figure out so it's best that you give her the time she said she needs to think about it. If you compromise I guarantee you that you will only get hurt. If you want her this bad as it is then it's going to be terrible to be in a "in between" phase so stick to your guns. She either wants you or she doesn't. If she doesn't then move on.0
What Guys Said 1
You did the right things. I think we've all been in this situation at some point, if we're old enough and have enough experience.
It's hard. I'd straight-up ask if she wants to fuck. That may or may not fly. If she does, cool. You can be buds until you decide it's not working even on a physical-only basis.
If you're looking to have a real bf/gf relationship with her, I'd say abandon it. It doesn't bode well. If she comes crawling back at some point, with newly clarified views, you can consider it. (And that happens ALL. THE. TIME.) Otherwise it sounds like a recipe for dissatisfaction, and it's guaranteed to divert you from finding a real partner who won't play games.
I know it's a difficult situation. Can be downright miserable. Sex can help. :) Otherwise, bid her adieu.0
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