I really don't see myself getting over this anytime soon. How long does it usually take. . I hear half the time you were together. Was my first real relationship.
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4 Months is nothing... it's going to take a lot longer if this person meant a lot to you like most first loves do. However with time it becomes easier to manage the pain and you start to accept things for what it is. Some people say you never really get over your first love and I kinda agree with that. It doesn't mean you won't find someone else and fall in love again but that person will always carry a special place in your heart. I'm also struggling with a break up and have done everything the "experts" advised such as no contact and it definitely helps. But it really all comes down to timing. Timing will heal the wounds but unfortunately we don't know how long it will take.0