After my breakup last yr (exes choice), he deleted me off of social media. Few months later he apologized & added me back. Then he tells a mutual friend he's reconsidering & starts snapchatting me. Bc he apologized, I answered him. Then he disappeared & told our friend "we just couldn't work out." Then a few months later, he starts stalking my Facebook, liking things every week. He sends me a Snapchat & this time I ignore it bc it was really random. Then he disappears again. Lol I'm like wtf? Hahaha, what is up with him? I don't get it! It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Anyone know what's up with this?
***I'm not asking people to tell me what to do or feel, but what they think his actions mean. I already know what I feel lol***
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It's almost like he's trying to keep popping up in some way to keep him in your mind, so you don't forget about him, but he doesn't want to be with you *right now*. It's like he's keeping his options open. Some guys do this with exes so they can have a fall back if they're lonely or something. I knew a guy who did this sort of thing. If he pops up every once in a while, then if he actually wants to contact you, you won't be like, I thought you disappeared off the face of the planet. Like, he'll message you on FB about something you posted to try and strike up a conversation, won't necessarily be out of the blue, because he's been "interacting" by liking your posts or whatever on FB all along. Don't know if that makes any sense... OR... it could just be that he stills considers you a friend, especially since you have friends in common. Guys are so weird haha1