Ok, I dont know how to handle this, but i am sure others have been in this situation. I am not so much hurt as I am surprised. Has anyone else been through this and what did you?
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You just need to realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with the relationship that the two of you had. Women over think things way too much. It's easy to wonder how could he marry this woman so soon after our split. It makes us feel like what we had didn't mean as much to him as it did to us and that things were a lie. It makes us wonder why he didn't feel that way about us. We can't control who we feel that we can't live without. When you get lucky enough to find that one person that our soul just connects with on more levels than any other relationship, there's not much reason to wait long. Maybe he got lucky and came into contact with his true soulmate. I know several couples who were married quickly after they met. The shortest relationship was a couple who were married 4 weeks after they met. That was 20 years ago and they are still married to this day. When it's meant to be, you can't or shouldn't deny it. Just don't see what he has with her as a reflection on the relationship you had with him. That's not being true or fair to yourself. Things are rarely ever what they seem to those who are on the outside looking in.0