I liked this girl last year but ended it because of her depression. She turned me down physically and wanted a serious relationship. I wasn't ready for one. She took it horribly and would have panic attacks telling me all I wanted was sex from her. I ended up falling for her friend and when she found out she flipped. A year later she comes up to me and apologizes. She told me she had low self esteem and she had turned me down because she didn't think she was sexy. That her panic attacks were her thinking she was worthless and a guy would only want sex from her. That she had really liked me and was hurt by her friend for flirting with me behind her back while she relapsed. What do you think of this woman? How should I handle this? Should I unblock her or be her friend? Should I feel bad for ignoring her?
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It sounds like she's done some soul searching and has either gotten some professional help or has read up on a few of her personal issues and is becoming very self aware of them.
I don't see any harm in being her friend, but just pay close attention to make sure her apology is genuine, and if she starts flaking out on you again, then you'll know she's full of shit and never talk with her again.
To me, it sounds like she's genuinely making an effort to apologize and at least is pointing the finger of blame at herself, unlike many other people who go around thinking everything is always someone else's fault.1