every single time i go out and im even standing next. to a guy or speaking to a guy he comes over and verbally abuses me/ and threatens to hit the guy
we have been broken up ONE year
i cared for him a lot, and i was devastated and heartbroken and tried to work things out but he doesn't want me back so Why on earth does he do this and won't let me speak to anyone?
Most Helpful Guy
He's a very jealous, controlling and narcissistic bully who wants what he doesn't have. I think I answered one of your questions about this guy earlier, and no one should "let" or "not let" you do anything or talk to anyone. He broke up with you, you've moved on, and he needs to get over it.
Maybe talk a martial arts expert to go out with you where this asshole trolls and see what happens when he starts shit with him. I hate bullies, and this guy needs to stay the fuck away from you and anyone you're hanging out with.
I hope you've told him to get lost. You can also always get security at the club and let them know your ex is harassing you and your friend. He really needs his head kicked in.
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Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like he's just a asshole with a huge inflated ego. He just wants the luxury of knowing you're all over him without him having to do any work or make commitments. Every time you show him you're your own person his ego gets bruised and he acts out on it.