what would be better? ex leaves you for someone you view as a better option or someone you view as a worse option?
i was thinking about this after a guy at work had his girlfriend leave him for a guy who works at mcdonalds and some people at work were making fun of that. but some others pointed out mcdonalds isn't that bad of a place to work and has benefits and such , either way he still works in fast food where is other guy has a full time job in a manufacturing plant. myself i had one of my ex's leave me for a muscular young police student who was clearly a better option than me and that hurt more that she left for someone better and didn't feel i could be someone worth her time
- worse if they left for a better optionVote A
- wouldn't matter either way it still hurtVote B
- worse if they left for a worse optionVote C
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WOW... what a hard poll!!!
I chose it hurts more when they leave you for a ditch pig. When a guy left me once to choose a girl he married, it made me think about the things I might have lacked and made me want to become a better woman. So I did. When they choose a rat-faced loser, I have to wonder how low I had to go to get their attention. It puzzles me more than hurts, but I usually think it's because they knew they weren't good enough for me, and they had to choose a lesser-attractive awful person to be with to feel as though they were the "better person" in that union, rather than be the "not-so-great-person" other half while being with me.0