Even now I seek a sense of closure with this toxic relationship, but he won't give it to me... I know most times people say that we need to find our own closure, and not expect other people to give us such a thing. But when you want that closure, and that other person wants to leave the door open, it is difficult to move forward with that open door still hanging out in the back of your mind. I have a bunch of theories, but this guy, even when I gave him an out, he didn't take it, only to later reject me and use my family as an excuse for doing it. Some of my peers believe he is homosexual, others think he has issues with commitment, and I simply think he never cared for me and only wanted to rush of being wanted... which I'm sure he could get from anyone... Why won't he give me the closure I need?
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To get closure just close it off yourself.. Walk away and stop all contact then you will get free of him... You keep putting yourself in the problem as I see it. You have to let go and then you will get closure. Maybe he did care at one time but it's over...0