I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years and we recently got into an argument. We didn't resolve the argument and he decided to end our relationship. I tried contacting him but he refuses to respond. I don't understand why he would get upset and just end our relationship without trying to fix things. Thanks in advance for your input.
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It would help to know what the argument was about. It could be a number of things. Either he got really scared. Or this was his ticket out. Or he just needs to step away for a bit.
It's critical to give him space right now. If he comes back (mine came back in a week), talk things through, and come up with a resolution. The one mistake I made was when it came to the talk, I decided to make changes for him but didn't stand firm that he should make changes for me as well. In short, I didn't hold to my concerns, needs, etc. and that's probably why he left again months later. That's a long story.
So don't push him or anything. If he knows you're sorry for your part of the argument, he probably just needs to step away for a bit. During this time, think of things you want to address concerning the argument. At the same time, there's also the chance that this was his ticket out and he's gone for good.0