Is lousy sex a good enough reason to break up with soemone after 2 years?

Thought it would get better as time went on but naw


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  • Bad sex could be reflective of your relationship. Is it bad because you two lack chemistry or can't communicate effectively? Try looking at your relationship as a whole, and if you think you'd still want to break with her regardless of the quality of sex then by all means do it.
    Both of you could also just have a frank discussion regarding what goes down in the bedroom, and figure out what works and what could be improved.

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  • well have you talked to your partner about the bad sex?

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    • Yep she claims she's just never been a sexuall person but she's had around 9 exs sooo i find that hard to believe

    • Well tell her exactly how bad it is and if she doesn't make an effort then it isn't going to work

  • The spark has died. What are you still waiting for?

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    • Spark? Was never there had other relationships and the sex is allways amazing when u first meet but this ones backwards its gradually been getting better but its just lacking passion and always had

  • Nothing wrong with that.

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  • It's a valid reason. But have you discussed it first?
    It's definitely something to communicate about before you make the decision, might be able to resolve it

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  • I think lack of sex, and bad sex are good reasons to leave someone.

    This is assuming one of the two refuses to help resolve the issue

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  • Do you talk about it to her? If you don't discuss it then you have no grounds for a break up unless you have talked and nothing has happened to improve it...
    Perhaps you might explain why it is lousy? Give an example and we'll try to help here.
    Also it takes two to tango so have you tried to improve the situation by teaching her?

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  • Sex is something u have to talk about with your partner. What turns each other on, kinks and fantasies you two want to try out.

    Do you talk to her about what turns u on and what you like in bed?

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    • Been there done that doc but she's just lifeless. Weve watched porn together i did some stuff on her request etc but still just no passion. U know when your making love to someone because u just know

    • This relationship is bad for you. Both partners should be sexually pleased in the relationship! I would break up ASAP.

  • then she'd say u cared only for sex bro...

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  • Please explain in detail why your sex life is not up to your wishes.

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    • Haha your going to call me ungrateful or complaining for no reason its not the quantity of sexual activities its the quality

    • No, I understand how important sex can be and not enough is troublesome. You can always help someone become better at technique or style. You cannot make them desire more or more often.

      I think you may have answered your own question. If you are considering a breakup after two years over this issue, then clearly it is important enough for you.

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