i caught her out with another guy when she told me she's working, so she lied to me about it. After that i was so pissed, i confided in a close friend that my ex cheated on me 4 times, (well its not the first time i caught her doing that i just kept quiet and endured). And somehow she hacked into my fb and saw the conversation between me and my friend.
So she says that before that she planned to get back with me, after she found out that i say she cheating on me, she broke up with me. Say that i am using too harsh a word. and she says i am just being too insecured. Its just a movie she said,
She also mention that she didn't want to tell me she went out with guys because it will lead to more trouble. But i always tell her. wherever u wanna go, i dont mind, as long as you tell me about it. Is that too much to ask from a girlfriend? like where she is and whats she doing?
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The fact is she was the one lying at the end of the day. It would be perfectly normal to be worried and jealous of a girl who goes out with various different guys and feels it's none of your business so instead of being truthful she choose to lie. If the situation was reversed she would have hit the roof, as you can tell by the crazy way she hacked into you facebook account. Knowing you were probably a bit jittery about your ex cheating previously she choose to lie about meeting up with other dudes that's fucked up. The fact that she has been secretly monitoring your Facebook messages is controlling and manipulative probably afraid you might be cheating on her as cheaters are always paranoid about being cheated on. Fuck that bitch and move on.0