me and my ex went out for a few months. He started getting really abusive to me caling me all sorts of names, and being controlling. I kept going back because he kept apologising, but everything was my fault.. there was norecognition of his mistakes.. he just kept calling me names. We decided to give it one more go and again, he starts. This time saying he would never introduce me to his family because im a liability, he thretens to hit me if i ever cheat (not that i would).. anyway. He keeps being horrible and i told him to leave me alone and i hate him, that i dont love him anymore. He then proceeded to be vile in saying that im ugly and fat. If i call him back after calling me, he shouts at me? Leaves me abusive messages. etc.
I have blocked him and am attempting to move on,, but im scared. Really scared he's going to stalk me or whatever. he's got previous convictions for beating girls up. and im so scared.
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I was in your position a couple of years ago. It took me about a year to get over the emotional abuse but trying to move on with life is the best you can do. Counselling may help too.
My ex did kind of stalk me but it was to beg for me back, not to harm me. If he begs for you back, stand your ground and refuse, no matter how much you want to take him back. You know it's not the right thing to do and you'll thank yourself later.
If you feel your ex will harm you, contact the police, explain your situation so they're aware of him and what's going on. Maybe get an officers number. Then if he comes near, you could ring up and tell them he's there and it's scaring you. Get a restraining order if he doesn't leave you alone.
Stay strong. You will get through this and he will eventually leave you alone. You'll find much better relationships and true love in future. :)0