don't know where to start. Iv got a 15mth old and 11week old to my ex who walked out on me when I was 3 month pregnant. we would have minor arguments during pregnancy and he would walk out but and I would say don't come back (not meaning it) one day we had a row and he said he was going and left me when I was 3 months pregnant.He returned when baby was born and we both agreed we would work through things. he came one day to see us and he asked how I was and I said I was fine but tired as the baby he kept me up most of night he said I was manipulating him and stood up and walked out again. he has since changed his number and he hasn't been in touch about children. I miss him so much and so do his children does he miss us too? do you think he may come back to us?
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How old is this guy? I am sure he misses you and the children. I am sure he will return but it seems like he will do that when he is good and ready. It doesn't seem like he is open to communication or doesn't want to be bothered. That is concerning to me personally. He chose to be a father and to work out your relationship. He has to realize that those children did not ask to be born so they're the victims in this, as are you. I hope that he does some reflecting to come to this realization but somehow I don't think he will.
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