So I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years a couple days ago, we live together so I'm still at the house because I haven't found another place to go. I broke up with him because our relationship is just to unheathly for us... We have both lost ourselves, we don't know what we like to do anymore, we both aren't independent, we are constantly getting into fights, I like to go out and hang out with friends and drink (I just turned 21) and he just doesn't like to go out with me and won't let me go alone and we both just haven't been happy for a while.
Well at first he was accepting of it and said he just wanted me to be happy but last night we talked about it and he keeps saying that h wants one last try to make this better and that he loves me and he started crying (I've never seen him cry before). The thing is that I love him too... He's my first love and I would still do anything and everything for him... But I'm not happy and I don't know if there is fixing out relationship anymore. Im exhausted with trying to make it work and it blows up in our faces everytime. I don't know if I should just break it off or give him our relationship one last chance?
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You should move out anyway and then basically start over. Being at your own place will give you a chance to be objective about your feelings for him and to realize what you want for yourself.1