I really want another guy and as soon as possible. Is this normal?
what should I be actually be doing?
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I think you're system is in shock for being suddenly alone and you want to fill that need as soon as possible because it became your routine. It's normal. Your mind and body are aching for what your husband just took away. It's a bit like smoking, you need to just give yourself time and the healing will be a bit more healthy for you if you DON'T get wound up with another man, especially so quickly. You are probably not in the right mind right now to have a relationship, and it wouldn't be fair to a guy to wrangle him in and potentially form feelings for you. There are plenty of books out there on how to grieve through a separation and that's exactly what you're doing right now, grieving a loss. Here's a link to a myTake I wrote a few months ago on some things you can do to try and make yourself happy that don't include a partner just to get you through the tough time right now.
Good luck! :) You'll be okay.0