My first boyfriend broke up with me three months ago. I keep thinking about him. I tried to get back together with him a few times, but he doesn't think we will work. Other guys have asked me out, and I dream about other guys, but I see my ex when I go to marching band, and I keep thinking about him. We haven't talked much since the breakup because he says if we don't talk it will help me to get over him faster and that it isn't healthy to talk. Please help me with tips on what I should do now to forget about him.
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It appears, @laurencool2, to be what I see as A... First love. And with this, a First Kiss probably too, it may take ages to... Get over him.
It's too soon to try and even be with anyone else, feeling as you do. Even if someone has 'Asked me out' and you did accept, you are Not Ready Nor... Raring.
Taker your time, lick your war wounds. This EX has definitely Marked an X in your softie spot. It took many years, way out of High school, to find a closure to close the Chapter of a Cinderella and Prince Charming story.
Time does heal all wounds. Every day may get a little easier on the heart. However, the memories never totally diminish and through life, being he is Your type, you will be comparing Them to him... For a while anyways.
For now, no contact and stay away is the Best from the Rest 'Tips' I can advise. Try and avoid him as much as possible, absorb yourself in studies and some sort of social life so you don't end up a Wallflower at home in doom and gloom.
BTW: Just a little consolation. What I wanted at 14, I surely wouldn't look at now.
Good luck, I feel you, I was Once there. xx1