Most Helpful Guy
This is a lot more common with 1st and second relationships, because of the lack of experience. I think just go on with life because he doesn't want to get back together and the sooner you realise that the quicker you can move on. clearly other guys want you so look at the positives. Best of luck it can be hard getting over previous relationships1
Most Helpful Girl
It appears, @laurencool2, to be what I see as A... First love. And with this, a First Kiss probably too, it may take ages to... Get over him.
It's too soon to try and even be with anyone else, feeling as you do. Even if someone has 'Asked me out' and you did accept, you are Not Ready Nor... Raring.
Taker your time, lick your war wounds. This EX has definitely Marked an X in your softie spot. It took many years, way out of High school, to find a closure to close the Chapter of a Cinderella and Prince Charming story.
Time does heal all wounds. Every day may get a little easier on the heart. However, the memories never totally diminish and through life, being he is Your type, you will be comparing Them to him... For a while anyways.
For now, no contact and stay away is the Best from the Rest 'Tips' I can advise. Try and avoid him as much as possible, absorb yourself in studies and some sort of social life so you don't end up a Wallflower at home in doom and gloom.
BTW: Just a little consolation. What I wanted at 14, I surely wouldn't look at now.
Good luck, I feel you, I was Once there. xx1