When we met, we were both working at a restaurant. I had a slightly higher position and he was a waiter. I never saw that as an issue and in my eyes we are all equal. Yes, some have higher positions than others but we're all working to make a living right? After a few months I left that jjob and decided to look for another type of work. I was jobless for about 3 months but had some money saved up so it wasn't so hard for me. My boyfriend was still working at that restaurant. I finally found a call center job so we were both working again and it was great. Sadly he lost his restaurant job bht found a new one a month later. But then he decided to try to find work in another country so he left that job and devoted his time to looking for work overseas through agencies. During the time he got scammed by the agency so he decided to stay here and find work here instead. During the time that he left his job his savings have been used so i am supporting him. I didn't really mind cause I was earning enough for two but at time it gets tiring and i know that he also feels tired and embarrassed that i have to pay for dates and all. I really really love my boyfriend and constantly encourage him. I know he's trying to find work as well and he never fails to always thank me for being so supportive and being by his side even through this tough time. I know that this isn't easy for him too. I'm sure it's hurting his ego. I am really really trying to be patient, loving and supportive in the best way that i can. We both put our best in our relationship and we're very happy. But I'm afraid of the future with him. I really don't want to leave him because of this. But if i imagine are future based on our situation now, it doesn't look so bright? If you were in my shoes would you stay? If yes, how will you handle the situation?
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You guys are at a really shitty point. It sounds like you guys are really good for each other. He doesn't sound like a deadbeat at all. I think just try to tough it out. If he's working at getting a job as hard as you describe him doing then it will eventually happen unless the universe really hates his guts.2