He was the one who ended it because who knows why he never really explained. Been 3 months since the breakup and 10 days without contact - I decided to cut him of because he was being rude to me and I don't want to be friends. I know I definetely don't want to be with him because he's not the person I thought he was, but I do miss him romantically. Does that makes any sense?
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Absolutely. It can be hard to get over someone, especially without closure. It's often the comfort of a relationship/the good memories that you miss. It took me six months to get over one of my exes, and it was probably because we stayed in contact the whole time. Cutting him off is a good move, especially if he's started being nasty towards you. Your best bet now is to take some time out and focus on yourself - do things that you enjoy, go out with friends (especially people you haven't seen in awhile, that's always good!). You can even try going on some casual dates just to get your mind off him and so you can have some fun just getting to flirt with/know/spend time with new people. It sounds like you're being really honest with yourself though, which is good - you know that you miss him (which is normal), but you also know that he's not the kind of person you want to be with. Keep holding on to that, give it time and you'll be okay eventually. Good luck! :)0