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Are you talking about guys in general? well it's tough to say you know, yes some guys do, some don't but I don't think guys will hate a girl but yes after the breakup they may never keep contact with them in any way, that doesn't mean they hate girls after breakup.
Secondly, I don't think your boyfriend actually hates you, he is just living up to his word that he told you, he wants to focus on other things, maybe understand a few things and that he wants to do it alone, and so he thinks or feels you should respect him for that decision, in my view I don't even think this is a break up, this is just like taking some time out for yourself, that's all. I am sure he misses you, loves you still, every day in his heart, in his mind but won't tell you that because he is keeping the distance.
Don't worry, I am sure things will be okay.