I was in a 4 year relationship with this guy. I'm 22 he's 21. He started working at a place where a lot of trashy girls can be found and well he started the workplace flirting and slowly was drifting away from me. then one day he just breaks up with me and tells me he kissed another girl at a party. It killed me. Now it's been 2 months post break up and we haven't spoken in 16 days. I'm dying and want to talk to him desperately. I know toward the end of our relationship things weren't perfect but I feel like this guy is my soulmate. I've never been with anyone else but him and I have already made plans to change myself in a more positive way but I want him back in my life. I'm sure he's hooking up with other girls but again I want this kid back in my life. All I think about were the good times with him and how easily I can make them happen again if he gives me the chance. OH we also kinda went no contact because I went on family vacation out of state and he told me to see him when I get back; should I break the no contact and tell him I'm back?
- Should I break the no contact?Vote A
- Keep the no contactVote B
- Should I try and save my relationshipVote C
- Should I just move on and never try and think about himVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Let him be. He is enjoying his time without you plus he broke up with you. Why do the crawling back. Nothing in a relationship is easy so it's just a way of thinking you can get back to where it was, there are no guarantees it's a two way street.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
... I'm sure he is hooking up with other girls...
From where I am sitting here, dear, he can no longer be trusted. He has showed you that in this place he is making his living, that there are less to be desired Trash around him and has even admitted to swapping spit with one of them and others you are sure of.
I feel it is going to go down a badly beaten path, be a full circle pattern problem with him and always end up to be a War of the Roses. I think you should just move on, don't keep subjecting your poor heart to heartache.
You certainly can do better with finding someone who is more deserving. Even if you see one another again, he will never change and just Want.. His cake and eat it Two.
Good luck. xx1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE