my husband prefers to be with his friends than with his family, witch is me and my 3 year old boy. and his friends aren't good people... they all do drugs like him... they drink and the worst part he brings them home and i dont like it because i woudnt like my kid to turn like his father. he also doesn't want to get money and take care of our kid. but i also feel bad because none of his family support him.
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It's only going to get worse here, dear, and with him and the drinking and drug using and the rock and roll redrick with his bad ass Friends... You are his enabler.
An Enabler is someone who continues down a beaten path to Allow a loser to to keep doing what they have been doing and doesn't try and stop them. Perhaps you have tried everything under the sun to get him to stop, to be a husband and father to your kid but you. Haven't... Showed tough love, just taken his bull.
It's time to take the bull by the horns here, dear. Take your child, move out with a family member until he agrees to change. He has issues with drugs, a bad environment for your child and as long as you permit yourself to pick up his problem pieces, this will only end up a War of the Roses.
No, his 'Family won't support him' because they don't want to go on that List of 'Enablers' who constantly have to support him as a life line and a life support with problems that they feel is your turn to do something about now.
Good luck. xx1