i dated this girl for 4 months until we mutually agreed to break up and be friends with benefits because we weren't allowed to see each other. so a month goes by and things build up between us and we get a lot closer, then she breaks it off and says she just wants to be friends, and I convince her to be friends with benefits, and the cycle of her breaking off, and our relationship building up continues for months. After one month things are really intense and we were talking about getting married and how we were in love. after a while and a while of treating her like royalty she breaks it off she says she doesn't like me and lost feelings for me and she just wants to be friends. I try to convince her to be friends with benefits and she says no I don't want to I don't like you I just want to be friends. one week later she is talking to another guy who she was talking too while we were dating. a month later she is together with him. I know this kid and he just uses girls and moves on. I really like her and want her back but she really likes this other guy. Should I talk to her? Should I forget about her? Should I tell her how I feel? I want her back and I'm thinking over time she will want me back. What should I do and by the way her birthday is coming up.
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Tell her happy birthday dude and just keep talking to her when you tell her that. If you get a feeling of her not wanting to talk to you then dont. Move on. I've been in your situation before. It won't do you any good if you just sit around waiting for her to break up with that dude. If you being with her was meant to be then yall will be together someday. Just now don't even worry about it.0