Most Helpful Guy
Well, this is a very messed up situation. No offence at all but I do think you have made a few little mistakes, but that's alright. From what I can see, he still loves you and if that really is the case then probably he would be feeling lonely now. That fluctuating attitude is just so visible in us guys when we want someone. If not now, then maybe some time later when he would have realized that you're not coming back, he would feel upset. If he reaches out to you again, I think you should accept him. As for his frustration, I think it's because you became friends then deleted him again and again.
Best of luck!0
Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye forever, my love. However, with an "EX" who doesn't just a Mark an X in your softie spot but a dagger in your heart here, dear, this is showing me, has Showed you as well That... One day he would be all lovely dovely and the next day a complete A...
It doesn't have to be etched in stone that that this "EX" has no regards for your feelings, has no respect for you to boot, and is Not ready nor raring to be in a Real Relationship with you anymore. He is this hot and cold loser who will just continue to play head games with your head and your heart and if he does it with you, he will be sure to do it to other girls, no matter what 'Different country.'
You did the right thing by saying 'Our goodbyes.' You gave him the courtesy, the class that he Obviously doesn't possess nor deserve Nor... Will he ever.
Sure, I won't lie to you, let's be fair here, dear. He will most likely be Missing the Kissing down the love line one day. However, he can't be trusted that it would just end up to be like it is Now... A full circle problem pattern and a bird with all sorts of lame duck excuses.
Move on and forget him. Believe me, you will one day find someone who is more deserving and doesn't treat you as a door mat. This one has been stomping all over you and even with 'He wanted us to stay friends,' he failed miserably and Instead... A fair weather friend who you knew you had to finally set free and Set... Sail.
Good luck. xx0