I remember everything from the nastiness to the name calling, I remember how he put me down in front of other women, and i also remember how he broke my heart. I remember me begging and pleading him and him laughing at me.
He contacts me every few months and each time I get a bit stronger I tell him I don't want to speak to him and I want to move on. I changed my number I blocked all access but he uses different numbers and gets people to give him my new number.
how do I make him go away? I am not interested if he's changed and don't want to engage any conversation, im not stupid I know I'm either a fallback hookup or because he's bored.
Why won't he leave me alone he Broke my heart it's healed I don't know what to do advice please
Most Helpful Guy
No offense, but everything you wrote said "I'm not over him". I'm not a psychologist and I can't tell you how to get over him - but it sounds like you need to. I wish you the best.0
Most Helpful Girl
Along with being a 'Fallback hookup or because he's bored' here, dear, you are Also this chase, this challenge to this loser And... The juiciest apple at the top of the tree, hardest to Grab and Get right now.
However, if you were to give in, you would not only 'Remember everything' from A to Z, you would See that he would Not have 'Changed' and it would only end up a full circle problem pattern again, a War of the Roses as always... He would have gotten you where he wants you and the Thrill would be gone and the Kill to begin again.
My advice is to Continue to Ignore him and as far as 'I changed my number' goes. Change it again but Only give it out to people you can Trust, not to Ones who he has eating out of his underhanded hand.
Good luck. xx0
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