How do I go about this?
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"I'd like to be able to be friends"
You can't just be friends with a ex if you still have feelings for them which I'm sensing from you. It never works out the way you imagine it to in your head. Reality is when you're friends with them you'll always want and expect more because of your feelings. If you haven't finished healing then I can assure you that being in contact with him will NOT heal you. If anything it will set you back and bring all the feelings right back. I understand you care about him (we all care about people who are or were important to us) but it's best for you to remain in NC unless he has given you a very good reason to break it such as initiating getting back together again but till then this whole "friendship" thing is probably a very very bad idea.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE