Today I found a memory card of his among my stuff, there are some personal family photos in it. I know he is very attached to memorabilia... I feel he does not deserve any kind gesture for what he made me go through. But I also feel so bad for having something that probably has sentimental value for him. I don't know... I just feel it's right to "do to others as you would have them do to you." I did not change my mind about reconciliating, even only as "friends" - he insisted on being friends (!!!) when he broke up with me.
So my question is... should I return them? If so, how can I make sure he does not see this as an attempt to get in touch with him? I really don't want to talk - there is nothing to say, really. Especially because I belive he is still happy with the person he dumped me for.
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As much as it pains me to say so, I probably would return it. It's not doing you any good. Who knows, maybe in the future that single gesture will change his attitude? I'm not saying you should get back with him, but it takes a lot to be the bigger person sometimes.
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