My ex broke up with me 3 months ago and we were together for 2 years. During couple of months before he dumped me obviously was lying and pretending how he loves me and shit, since he ended it with "I don't love you anymore". It was out of the blue for me. We had no fights so I really don't know what the hell happened. But it happened and whats done it's done. He continued lying to me after the breakup. He was initiating friendship at first and then would want to get back together, and then back off again. He lied about how he is cool about us going for a coffee, and then bail in the last moment. When I asked him why he just said that he has a feeling that I still care too much and he wasn't comfortable with it so he bailed. So yeah, he is the type of a person who won't tell it straight up but make excuses in hope you get the hint. This happened few times while we were together as well.
The thing is, after the breakup, I never really trusted him with anything. The breakup was enough reason for me to stop believing him even if he said that sky is blue I wouldn't believe him. I'm still not sure if this is a normal feeling? But my question is if he lied before and always the same way, will he always? I told him I don't want to be friends friends since he lied about being okay with it, but who knows maybe one day. I am friends with all of my exes and I would honestly like if we could also be ones one day, since he was my first serious and long relationship. I just think he's a liar and I can't be friends like that, it would look like it's ok to lie. Do you think he will stop lying eventually?
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He may do but he's done it to you once and now he seems confused and that's due to mixing his own head with his lies. In time friendship might work but not yet you need to stay away and let him. know its over and maybe he will learn lessons from his actions and change0