Hey! So we are supposed to get married next month, been broken up for 3 months now. I have done the no contact thing and finally reached out last week. He responded with very positive things and gave me hope. I have also been posting (not with guys) very happy pictures of me being out and enjoying my life. Plus I posted I was going to Vegas with a group of girls the week were to marry. The day after the email, he takes a girl out of town and post to FB (knowing my friends and family would see) of course my friends called me and told me. When I confronted him, he told me it wasn't about me and was rude. I asked to tell me honelstly if I should let him go 100%.
This was his response:"It's over. I'm hesitant to be defintive because you never know what life holds, but for the foresseable future, Yes. Just having you ask the question brought so much crashing down inside me today. Today, now, for me, the idea of us is too painful. It is taking all my will not to type out a litany of things with an all CAPS why. At the end, and I am not a place where I could understand or accept whatever answer you gave. When I can stop feeling that way maybe we will be in a position to talk, but right now I am not ready".
Is he just trying to string me along - or should I close this chapter in my life, even if I love him dearly?
- Do I keep hope that he will come back?Vote A
- Do I move on and close this chapter?Vote B
Thanks so much guys!
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You posted on FB that you were going to go to Vegas with your group of girls the week you were supposed to get married? I don't see how it's surprising the guy spent the weekend with another girl, you pretty much stated you were going to Vegas to have some random fun to make up for not getting married.
Even if that's not what the Vegas trip is about, that's what it's being broadcasted as on Facebook. Put yourself in his shoes, his ex-fiance posted so that everyone could see on Facebook that she's going to Vegas instead of getting married.1