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I do not Now see that it is really Anyone's business and even when you were Together, she had her own motives for wanting No one to know.
Let sleeping dogs lie. It doesn't make sense that with you no longer these birds of a feather, why You should have to Flock to them in squealing and sqawking.
With you chirping, you possibly may have now barked up the wrong tree. If you split up, it's going to be hard to just move on without one or the other, who I'm sure, the cat will eventually be let out of the bag, and may come back to bite you and Harder To... Close this cozy chapter.
Good luck. xx