I know her, my ex and I met her together with some mutual friends. We all used to be friends for awhile, until I backed off. I realized she is a controling slut who want's to fuck with my boyfriend and I didn't want to hang out with her or her friends anymore. I thought my boyfriend did the same but surprise surprise he didn't, he fell for her, dumped me and now is like fuck buddies with her or something like that. We were togheter for 3 years. This happened 4 months ago.
Anyways. I was heartbroken but I am living with it. I don't want to hear anything about him, he disgusts me. I don't even think about him, I already started liking someone else. But I can't stop thinking about HER. About what did she have that I don't and about what is it so special about her to leave a long term relationship. I think every day about her, the way she talks, walks, dresses, flirts... I check her up on facebook and even tho I hate to admit it I am jealous of her. I know I am more sexy, more fun, mature and smart, and she is just a kid (17 years old). There must have been something that I did wrong and she did right, to choose her. I feel sorry for her because deep inside I know she is not an evil person. She is in her teenage years and she likes older men attention. She slept with almost every one of my guy friends. She was super attached to me tho, for some reason, before I ditched her. She wanted me more then anymone, she was looking at me like her older sister, and everyone said that. Then when I ditched her she cried for weeks, calling me, begging me to be her friend, would always find excuse to show up where I am. By boyfriend always thought that's cute and asked me to give her a chance, but fuck that, I didn't like her. Well what's done it's done. But I can't stop thinking about her and worrying that she is a better person then me... It's stupid, right? Did this ever happened to you?
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My ex and I were together on and off for 7years and have children together. He just recently started dating a girl I know and it bothers me a lot too. I was really hoping to eventually work things out with my ex but this obviously makes things even harder. I know deep down inside things between them will eventually fall apart and in the meantime I need to do a couple of drastic things. His whole family are on my side and are very upset and disappointed in him. It's at the point I don't think his parents want anything to do with him at this moment. I pretty sure whatever is going on between him and her is just a distraction on how he really feels for me. We obviously have a ton of history together and don't think that what we have is completely done or over. I don't think your ex and this new girl will last very long either. At the end of the day the grass isn't always greener on the other side and once the novelty of having something new is done then things shortly afterwards will start falling apart. In the meantime you need to realize this has nothing to do with you but a complete act of selfishness on both their parts. I believe everything happens for a reason and you will eventually start to understand things in a much better way. When one door closes another one opens. Walk through the open door and don't look back.0