I'm scared of my ex girlfriend moving on to another guy. We were together for 3 years and no matter what I know she’s going to move on at some point in time. Even though I know she doesn’t care or think about me and I think she’s a horrible person, I still care for her and feel awful knowing that she’s with someone else. I really liked her but I realized she didn’t take the relationship seriously nor showed me real love besides her words, I know she's not good for me even knowing this, I'm afraid that she's going to be with someone else, maybe treat him so much better than she ever treated me or he won’t threat her well. I don't know how to handle this, I’m trying to forget her and every time I think I’m over her the idea of her doing better than me comes in mind. I can't not think about it, I deleted her number, removed her from FB and deactivated my FB so I won’t accidently see anything concerning her but still did on Twitter even though she doesn’t have a twitter account =(. In the future I'm sure I’ll hear about her being with someone else regardless. I’m certain it won't be long before she finds someone new since she’s kind of easy access because even when we were together she let other guys flirt with her.
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yeah dude... You're doing the right thing by deleting her from your life... Now you just have to delete her out of your mind.
Yes eventually she will find herself with another guy... But if anything you should feel sorry for the poor guy she gets involved with, because you know what she's capable of.
The best thing you can do is just focus on you for now... shift your thoughts into more positive directions away from her... the more that you practice this the more you will lose grip of the addiction that you have obtained by thinking about her all the time. And I apologize because I truly do empathize... I've been there and done that which is why I'm telling you what I am.
use her as a learning experience in your next relationship as to what you don't want... But before you engage in a new relationship focus on being the type of person you want to be and figure out what you want to attract... you did the right thing by letting that one go, now all you have to do is finish the job.0