How do I ask my ex to hang out again for a second time?

My ex and I broke up a few months ago (she ended it). After the breakup we met up once for coffee (it went well), but we've ran into eachother a couple times as well. And once in a while we catch up over brief text messages but not all the time. So basically we're on good terms.

Last week she texted me and asked me if I was going to this event that she was going to that we both have an interest in. I said no, and told her to have fun though, but haven't talked since.

I'm thinking about asking her to hang out again. How should I ask?
Should I just text her and be forward and say "Hey, lets grab drinks this week!"?
Or should I ask "Want to grab drinks this week?"
How should I word it? Should I ask? or should I suggest we hang out?
Should I start a conversation first, THEN ask if she wants to hang? Or should my first text be to suggest hanging out?
Or should I ask something completely different? Because I don't want to go for coffee again, I want to change it up.

I appreciate any pointers


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What Girls Said 1

  • ask the same way.


What Guys Said 1

  • She reached out, so ask when she is free to catch up.
    Don't over think, just have fun and hook up.
    Somewhere casual sounds good, good luck mate


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