Its been 2 years since my ex and I broke up after 7yrs. I feel we broke up b/c I felt like he wasn't supporting me when I went off to college a hr away from him. I failed a lot of my classes b/c he refused to come see me and I was constantly on the road, working 2 jobs and classes. The final straw was him catching a 3rd DUI in the car I bought him. He quit drinking and beat the charge then started drinking again. I wanted him to open his eyes and figure out the type of person he wants to be, but he is now ignoring me. During our last conversation he said I left him when I went off to school, he lost his rock. Mind you I have been with this man through several charges I have paid for lawyer and bail and bills whn the water and light were shut off. I drove him back and forth to work and school over 80 miles a day until I bought him a car. Why won't he grow up and change amd support me back? He says he wants a family but refuses to be around mine from day 1. I felt like I gave up parts of myself for him. Why does he not see that? He now says it's my fault and I made my choice and he doesn't love me. How does love go away that fast for him and I am still hurting and calling him. I guess I just want to know why can't he give me what I gave him. I put my life on hold so he could have a ride to school and work. Now he graduated and it's my turn but he won't be there. He would rather drink all day then to be happy. I called him today from my work phone and once he heard my voice he acted like he couldn't hear me.
- should i let him go?Vote A
- should i get him back?Vote B