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Guys break up with girls (AND vice versa) in a "nice" way, because they do still have some feelings for the person they are breaking up with and Don't really want to hurt them anymore than they already are by breaking up with them. Which is the WORST thing a person can do when breaking up with another person - if they are sure they no longer want to be with them. Breaking up "nicely" and telling someone "I really like (d) you... etc.. leaves the other person with hope that this is "Not really happening". Which is usually not the case - and you get to sit there sleepless for God knows how long - wondering when they are coming back. He did not want to hurt your feelings any more than necessary when he broke up with you. But he is gone and you need to work on getting over him.