What should I do? I'm so confused and worried... I don't know what to do.
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Sigh... I'm sorry to say that life presents no guarantees.
What has helped me in similar situations is to try and live more "present mindedly".
To explain, as much as we would like to we cannot erase the past... And as much as we would like to forecast the future, we cannot do that either.
The key for me is refrain from looking back, yesterday is only but a memory in the future is only a figment of the imagination, it's a projection of an anticipated outcome...
But the present... Ahh, this is a gift!
The present is the only true reality there is and it is the only moment in time where you can truly experience life for what it is... Not what it was and not what it will be... If you can bring yourself to the present to enjoy the only true moment in time you have to live... You can free yourself from self created illusions and fear.
It's really okay to love yourself enough to have mercy on yourselfyourself, to allow yourself to experience happiness in your present... it sounds like you have the potential to engage in something special with what sounds like a great guy... you would be doing yourself a great disservice by not moving forward into the here and now... to find happiness you must let go of the pains of yesterday and don't think about tomorrow... Be present minded, and you will never miss a moment of opportunity... Enjoy the ride ;)1