My ex broke up with me three weeks ago after over a year together claiming he needed time to sort his head out and do his own thing. He said he felt like he wasn't making me happy anymore and that's made him think he's unhappy. He was genuinely upset while saying goodbye to me to. This came as a shock to me due to him telling me how in love with me he is just days earlier and still having a great time together.
A couple of days later he's been spending time with a girl he was dating for a couple months several months before we got together. Is this a rebound, is he just using her for comfort so he doesn't have to deal with his emotions?
Most Helpful Guy
Seems like he wanted space from you. I don't see a reason to strike up seeing another girl so quickly after breaking up. But he is an ex now and either way no longer your problem or subject to time spent wondering about him.0
Most Helpful Girl
I believe that with this Break up here, dear, he is Taking some Space along with 'Needed time to sort his head out' And... Do his own thing.
He is now what I call 'Spreading his wings' with the Fling thing and is resorting back 'With a girl he was dating for a couple months...' He may have even got up with her during his times he was crying the baby blues with you and Then... Out of the blue, with you both seemingly two Chirping birds of a feather, you no longer Were... Stuck together.
No, I don't think it was to Cry on her shoulder or find cozy 'Comfort,' however, I do Think he may have been Talking to her before you parted ways and he is Now... Squawking to her about lame duck excuses with Why he broke it Off with you.
Good luck. xx0
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