I want to break thing off but am terrible with break ups.
The man loves me but the feeling just isent mutual
And im way more mature then him
And he has absouloutley no idea how to have sex with a woman
No matter how much you teach/tell him we haven't had sex since he moved in
I just dont think its fair to either of us to on like this
So how do i break my engagement off?
Most Helpful Guy
Buy 10 cats out of nowhere and start wearing crazy cat lady sweaters. You won't have to worry about breaking it off; he'll go running for the hills himself.
But realistically just be honest. Maybe sugarcoat the sex thing unless you really don't like him. As soon as you tell a man that friendship kind of goes out the window. Just do the casual "I don't think this is working, I'm sorry, it's not you it's me" or something. Regardless he'll get the picture.
Most Helpful Girl
Sit him down, face to face, @Callie37, and lay the truth on the love line. Tell him you are Not ready to be Engaged at this time, nor do you believe, Honestly, you are Ready neither for a Real relationship.
This willl end the madness and will keep you from going on, knowing you Know the whole truth. He may be upset but at least you put this sticky situation to bed before You... Wed.
Good luck. xx