Me and my boyfriend have been together alongggg time and I'm inlove with him and he's inlove with me but recently we had sex (lost my virginty) the thing is my parents hate him and forbade me to be with him. And they always told me if I were to ever lose it and keep it from them they would never forgive me. I feel so guilty about I'm 17 and I just feel so bad like I don't want to brake up with him but I just need time to think about everything like I'm just stressed and sad and I feel like this is what I need to do but I don't know how to say it to him.
Most Helpful Guy
Well if your going to break up with him don't put that on your parents, my girl's parents HATED me. (We were not even able to see each other for 6 months at one point, and I was never allowed to touch her, although I did anyway.) But she stuck it out because we loved eachother.
It's fine if you break up with him, just make sure that you realize why you actually want to break up with him. You are only 17 and there is absolutley no reason to feel obligated to stay with him.2
Most Helpful Girl
... Have been together alongggg time and I' in love...
Now that the cat is out of the bag, you're 17, you took the risk and Knew the Consequences when You... Lost my virginity. Now that mom and dad have had their hand in this relationship with someone you have had for More than a Month of Mondays, you want To... Brake up with the guy?
No more pussyfooting around. You will end up being very sorry if you say anything here, dear. This is just the Beginning of more Beguines that they will Feel they have Over you by Controlling your life and giving you strife even after you are of age.
If you let them win now, for soon you are going to be this young adult, then they will always think they have a carrot over your nose and rule the roost.
Think carefully before you take the plunge to 'Feel like this is what i need to do.' This is the start of something special that He and You have worked hard to Nurse and Nurture so don't let Guilt and your parents stand in your way of Happiness with a potential husband.
They may Try and hold their own whip over your head but if you stand your ground and give them a few rules of your own, they will either have to bend or it may have to End it for awhile and let them stew in their own juices.
If they love you, they will calm down and see it your way that Love... Got in the way.
Good luck. xx1