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My ex did the same... He was texting at ALL times. Lots of girls. Seriously. He always said it was innocent. But some of these girls were obviously hitting on him... and he seemed not to get it!!! Or he pretended to be clueless... I don't know.
There was one in particular. She used to call or text him often, sometimes late at night and on the weekend. Apparently she always had a major drama to solve - and of course being the nice guy he could not refuse helping her. She also always asked about me, never using my name, but always referring to me in a "not so polite" way in my opinion. I let him know that I was uncomfortable with it and sometime I gave him hard times about it. This excessive texting/calling had to stop. One day he deleted all her texts from his phone! Not sure why, perhaps he really decide to put an end to it, I thought, or perhaps she passed the line and he erased all proofs not to get caught? Most likely the last option, since a few months later he broke up with me saying that we were incompatible, and bla bla bla. But they real deal was a new coworker - he dumped me for her. Of course he never told me she joined his office a few week before. What a liar.0