People change, people grow up and mature... So would you say an ex boyfriend deserves a second chance after you left him 3 or 4 years later? Let's say The break up was due to him lying... He never cheated but he did have girls around him all because he's a decent looking man... Let's say you've had other boyfriends, you've fucked other guys but you still love him... He knows it and you know it but you won't admit it cuz your afraid he'll hurt you again... What would you do in that situation, would you let him in and give him a second chance to prove himself or would u just keep your distance?
- Give him a second chanceVote A
- Shut him out and keep my distanceVote B
- I'm unsure what I'd doVote C
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It depends on the situation. I'm a firm believer in "break ups happen for a reason" and second chances don't work. I've given a few. If both parties are willing to work on the previous issues and try then it's worth a shot but that never likely happens. Usually things go well at first but awhile down the road you're always reminded of why you broke up in the first place and it doesn't last. It's better to learn from the mistakes of that relationship so you can make the next great one that much better. That's what growing is all about. It's still okay to love people from your past and still move on.. And after that much time it usually becomes the memories you shared that you love and not the actual person. Because as you said people change, they grow up.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE