- Give him a second chance
- Shut him out and keep my distance
- I'm unsure what I'd do
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It depends on the situation. I'm a firm believer in "break ups happen for a reason" and second chances don't work. I've given a few. If both parties are willing to work on the previous issues and try then it's worth a shot but that never likely happens. Usually things go well at first but awhile down the road you're always reminded of why you broke up in the first place and it doesn't last. It's better to learn from the mistakes of that relationship so you can make the next great one that much better. That's what growing is all about. It's still okay to love people from your past and still move on.. And after that much time it usually becomes the memories you shared that you love and not the actual person. Because as you said people change, they grow up.