Becuz everytime he does something wrong we break up and it happened over 5 times and this time I'm done with him so how do I just not pity him? I dont want to date for the next 4 years I just want to be alone, how do I achieve that mindset?
How can I be more selfish and not let my ex back?
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I did that once, and let me warn you. DO NOT GO BACK. A point will come when he will think, "Hey I can do whatever I want because we always get back anyways." It will destroy you emotionally, and he will stomp all over you if you allow it to continue. If being selfish means having more self respect then, realize that you deserve better. You are a human being who deserves to be treated good and have a stable relationship. Not one where you break up 5 times and it stresses you out.1
Ignore him and think of other more important priorities in your life than pitying him. I find looking at things in a more hmmm... organized? rational? (can't find the correct word, but yeah) way and pulling out emotions to be effective, like being a third party who's just looking at someone else's problem.1
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