i am a type of man who really wish to have stable relationship.. i broke with my ex few months ago she left me without saying any reason , i respected her decision i was feeling bad for 2 month's after break up which is make me really lost my weight from 95 kg to 79 and now 76 kg... i don't have any feelings for life or desire for food or sex or anything, 3 days ago one girl she started to like me and call me but somehow when i talk to her i open my phone looking to my ex photo and really i have i have tearing eyes.. i look to her photo and i ask her in my mind why u let me talk to who i don't want to talk to but i have to.. why you let others knock my door when i am totally in love woth you , i confirm really im not crazy but i just love you. now i feel im stuck i dont want meet new girls i dont feel going with friends , i just feel lost.., everyone say try to do something New , meet new girl , travel.. but nothing work with me , i dont know what should i do? she don't want me anymore, and i will never force her to be with me when she don't want to be with me ... i never message her cuz i feel like i don't want to insult my self and i respect my self but really im tired alone seems like im burning my self for her and i don't want her to see me like that.
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Only time can tell. In a few months time she might be at your doorstep crying about her new breakup.
I was in your position this time last year and I am so happy and comfortable with myself now. I know it's hard constantly checking social network sites and looking at her pics maybe that's the reason she left you, because you were too clingy and girls HATE that that's why she left you for another. I promise you life won't get any better if you sit and sob about it all day. She isn't completely over you I promise you that but you wanna know how to get her back or to ACTUALLY move on? Do something with your life get out the house go parties, museums you name it with your friends and try avoid going on your phone a lot. You also lost a lot of weight well done. My ex left me someone else I began stuffing my face cos I thought no one wanted me but you did the exact opposite. My ex now is still with his girlfriend but came running back to me. It didn't seem like he was fully satisfied with her I just give him short replies and I've lost so much wieght I can tell he wants me back. Anyway do what I said above and thank me later x1