Most Helpful Girl
Easier said than done with an "EX." Her heart is with him, her head as well and with This... She ended up dumping me.
She could have also gave you a lame duck excuse for telling you This because she felt she and you were going too fast into the waters and she got cold duck feet. It could be true of the skeleton still in her closet and then again, who really knows what goes through someone's head, even after Thinking... Things were going perfectly fine.
You could find some answers, even if it would be a closure here, dear, but make it light and semi sweet and not too Desperate, clingy, by telling her how you like your company and would love to hang out again and if she needs anything you are there for her, even as a friend.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
Rule of thumb son.
Don't try to understand someone who doesn't even understand themselves.
It takes two whole people to make it work, and this chica? She's only half a person. She needs time to discover the other half or this would never work. Whether if it works with YOU, or with that ex, or someone else entirely? That's up to her to decide.