how long did each stage last?
Most Helpful Guy
I had a girlfriend with BPD and I didn't experience the "stages" described in that article. I recognized maybe 40% of what it talked about. I'm sure there are some relationships with a Borderline which would work out like that, but of course there's a lot of variation among different people dealing with BPD.
Good luck. :)
Most Helpful Girl
I have borderline personality disorder. It's not the reason why I'm bad at dating though. I can handle my disorder, but family experiences have made it hard for me to date.