I was dating a guy long distance, we went on an amazing couple of dates and tried to text/talk once a day.
things were going great until I felt like I was coming off a bit naggy asking him when he was coming up to where I live for another date. Eventually he started to get more distant and then out of the blew disappeared for a week. I was patient and then he texted me after I was losing my patience saying "it's not that I didn't want to respond, I just don't know how, I'm sorry but this is difficult" so I replied what's difficult? And haven't gotten anything for 2 weeks. I'm really confused he's kind of ignoring me now. I'm assuming I was dumped but I don't know if it was the distance, if he wasn't ready to commit, if he met someone else or if it was just me? Any thoughts?
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LDR are One of the Hardest to Have and to Uphold of Any, @Emilyrich93, and it takes two special people to make the effort and take the time to be in this.
With 'We went on an amazing couple of dates...'everything seemed koshore for sure in Denmark. However, when you became 'A bit naggy,' he felt pressured on his end and Then... He started to get more distant.
I am not sure just yet, a bit too soon to tell, whether or not 'I was dumped.' But one thing I do know, for being as wise as I am, you have a chance for this romance if you back off a little, give him time to rethink things and by sending him an apology of : " I'm sorry, I didn't mean to come off as pushy, could we try again?" He may come around and maybe faster and things may Get... Better down the love line.
You both were off to a super start but he got this sour ball in his mouth when he thought he had to be more than this stone's throw with Long Distance and it became not so sweet for him. I don't think he minded so much the distance but The... Nagging.
Good luck. xx0